You Are the Prize: Stop Competing for Men and Know Your Worth

Many women approach dating like they need to be chosen.

They try to say the right things, do the right things, and become the kind of woman a man would want.

But what if that entire mindset is backwards?

In this episode, we talk about what it really means to see yourself as the prize — not in an arrogant way, but in a grounded, confident way that changes how you show up in relationships.

We discuss:

• Why competing for men lowers your value
• The difference between being chosen and choosing
• How scarcity thinking affects your dating life
• What it actually means to “know your worth”
• Why confidence starts with how you see yourself

You don’t have to prove your worth.

You just have to recognize it.

💛 Free resources to support you:

👉 ABC’s of Healing (for heartbreak):
https://marydittman.mykajabi.com/abcsofhealing 

👉 Overcoming Loneliness (free training):
https://marydittman.mykajabi.com/free%20loneliness%20training%20optin 

📖 Read the full blog here:
https://marydittman.mykajabi.com/blog/you-are-the-prize

One-Derful Life is a podcast for single Christian women over 40 who want to live peaceful, confident lives — even while they’re still waiting for the relationship they desire.