Why High Standards Protect a Tender Heart
By Mary R. Dittman, M.B.A.
Just because a man shows up doesn’t mean he’s supposed to be in your life.
One evening, I went to a basketball game at the university where I teach. I tried to get a couple of girlfriends to go with me, but no one was available — so I went by myself.
During the second half of the game, a friend stopped by and asked if I was dating anyone. When I told him I wasn’t, he said he wanted to set me up with his brother.
Fast forward a few weeks, and I was sitting across the table from that brother on a dinner date.
He was charming. Funny. Shared my faith. He had two kids, seemed stable — and yes, he was super cute. I really liked him.
I remember thinking, Wow… good thing I went to that game alone.
If I’d been with friends, this never would’ve happened.
It felt like proof that patience and positivity had finally paid off.
Maybe the universe was rewarding me. Maybe this was meant to be.
We went on a coup
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