How to Go Out and Live Life NOW

This post is part of our February series: Loneliness, Fear, and Comparison

Do you ever avoid doing things alone because you feel awkward or embarrassed?

You’re not alone.

I once read an article where the author attended a local theater production by herself. As she walked in, she wondered, “Are the other audience members judging me like some dateless freak?”

Later in the same article, she admitted she actually enjoyed the experience. She could sit where she wanted, order what she wanted, and didn’t have to listen to anyone else’s commentary during the show.

Coincidentally, that same day, Dear Abby published a letter from a man whose wife talks nonstop during symphony performances — and he was fed up.

Sometimes going alone is actually better.

The small-town spotlight

I live in a small Southern town. Once, I mentioned to someone that I had just returned from a solo vacation in Cancun.

Her reaction was immediate:
“I would NEVER do that!”

Her resp...